Memorial Service
February 03, 2007
Today was a memorial service for Yong Won's
father. It was a traditional Korean ceremony that's held on
the anniversary of his death. Before the ceremony, the women
of the family cook traditional foods all day. These foods are
then placed in specific positions on the table along with some of
the favorite foods of the deceased. Late at night, it is
believed that the spirit of the father comes into the home and has a
meal with the whole family. There's a special sequence to the
event that includes numerous very low bows. These very low
bows (you kneel and your head touches the ground) are the sign of
utmost respect.
What I learned today about Korea: 1) Last year it was
very uncomfortable to bow so low, but this year I could do it
easily.
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